Joe Gearin said:
Home ownership is one of the most rewarding things you'll ever do. There's nothing like putting that key in the door after the mortgage closing and knowing it's YOUR place. It's a great feeling. I'm excited for you guys!
That said, when the roof needs replacement, or the A/C or furnace takes a crap---- home ownership is ah....less rewarding! As others have said, get an inspector you trust. Many construction guys are also certified to be home inspectors. See if you have a family friend that can help---and give you the straight scoop.
You're smart folks, even though you both need to obey each other, not just one way. (sorry....I hate the term SWMBO)
Finding a home in a good school district is important. Not only do you want your future kids to go to good schools, the school district greatly affects home value. (think of the difference in cost between Holly Hill and Ormond Beach--- the schools are a huge reason why Ormond is so much more expensive)
Before you make a decision on any home, hang out in the neighborhood--- especially after dark. Take the dog for walks around the area at different times of the day. This is a good way to find out if your potential neighbors are crazed hillbillies who will be screaming at each other after happy-hour every night, or if you have bad-seed teens in the area and so on. Neighbors can make or break a home-buying experience. Check out their backyards, their cars, the condition of their homes. Meet them if you can. You do not want a crappy neighbor living next door---- especially if you'll be messing with cars / working in the shop late at night.
Try not to stress out, or get too emotionally attached to the homes you look at. It's very, very hard not to let emotion come into play----as you'll be imagining the changes you'll make, the future you'll have there. Try to be as logical and sensible as you can be. Also, don't be too discouraged if plans fall through---- -there are tons of "perfect" places out there. (heck, I bid on 4 homes before I finally got mine!)
Good luck! It will all be worth it, when you finally insert that key!
Very well said. As to lots of “ suitable” houses out there. You sure have that right. I bid on 22 houses before I finally got my first one. However I learned a lot on that first one back in 1974. When I had to pay $125 for an appraisal and found out the VA rejected the house every offer from then on included a clause that should the house not pass inspection the earnest money and cost of inspection would be refunded.
The cool part is that giving me money back forces the homeowner to come to the realization that there are standards that must be adhered to in order to sell their home. Thus their neglected maintenance either lowers the price or is repaired at their expense.