Wife and I currently have one vehicle between us. She started a new job a few months ago and would like to go into the office once or twice a week. I WFH. We don't need another car, but the truck is old and has issues. Having a second car would help quite a bit. I could dig into the truck and have a second car to get parts, I could run to the store if she's at work, we could actually take a weekend trip to get out of the house, etc. We've been a one car family for about 18 months, but it's time to buy a second. As we all know, the market sucks.
Budget is $6k at the high end, but $5k or less would be better. I need a comfortable daily. The requirements are A/C, automatic, 4 doors. Wife does not like minivans, but if that's the only option, she's fine with it. This will be a car to get us through the next year as we get our finances back on track. I've been watching CL and FB, probably to the point it's made me nutty.
I know the easy button cars (Honda, Toyota), but they come with a premium. GRM has a fantastic backlog of "Learn Me" posts to look anything up.
However, where I struggle is the actual process. Do I limit my search to small dealers or individuals or both? Each have their issues. Dealers can hide issues. Individuals just won't respond, are dealers hiding as individuals or English is not their first language. Quick note, I have no issue with the language part, it's just trying to read the seller on what the real condition of the car is or trying to negotiate a price can make it difficult.
Add that I'm "quasi" lazy in that I don't want to spend a weekend or several driving all over central Texas to look at cars that may or may not be real and may or may not have the seller actually show up.
So, my question is, how do you find a car? Do you narrow it down to a specific make or make/model and just look at those? Do you decide a price point and keep things open for anything? If you have a price point, do you try to understand something about the different problems with a make/model before looking or do you base it solely on condition? What about criteria? Is a '97 CRV with 117K miles at a little dealer better or worse than a '10 Chrysler Sebring with 120k miles or the '02 Suburban that has 200k miles, but seems to be well taken care of and is dead simple/cheap to fix? In theory, you look at all three, but when it's a two hour drive between them, I probably couldn't look at them all in a day. Don't get me started on the 12 different ways people want to communicate (only calls, no text; only text, no calls; only email; only messenger, etc). TBH, I find I'm leaning more towards the little dealers because they at least have a couple of options I can look at in a short time frame.
I guess I'm just really just ranting because all the current options seem to suck, I don't really have anything specific I'm looking for but I don't want to end up with a problem car. I know I'm probably overthinking it all and locking myself up, but at the same time, I'm a car guy and just can't buy "whatever" without some research. The FOMO is wreaking havoc on my brain.
Sigh....... Sorry, I just know that y'all are the only people that can understand my frustration.
-Rob