I think this is the first time I've heard that 6 is too many. All my manual cars have been 5 speeds, and while I've driven cars with 6 speeds, I never felt like it was excessive. That may not be something I'd notice without daily driving the car for a bit though. Very interesting.
The bikes are all 6 speeds except for one, and I'm always looking for another gear one the 5 speed bike. I also added a 6th gear to a bike that didn't originally have one with no regrets.
NV3500s are very thin on the ground around here, especially 2WD drive ones. My T56 is known good; I drove the car it came out of a few times. Most NV3500s would be unknown and it's hard to tell if they have the common intermediate shaft bearing wear/failure issue when it's out of the truck.
I'll keep an eye out, but will proceed with the T56 if nothing pops up in time. My original plan was driveshaft, transmission, rear end, but now I might do the transmission first to make sure the transmission is actually as unlivable as I expect it to be with the stock gears. Transmission, then driveshaft, then rear end if needed. The feedback on towing with the NV3500 makes me think I will absolutely need to regear with the T56 though.
I know it's easy to get lost in overthinking the numbers, but I have the shift maps for the 4L60 from EFILive. That lets me compare to the automatic while taking the torque converter into account, at least at WOT. It does illustrate how tight the gearing is on the T56.
4L60: 1>2 at 36 mph, 2>3 at 70 mph (5200-5300 rpm on the tach)
T56 + 4.56: 1>2 at 39 mph, 2>3 at 58 mph, 3>4 at 80 mph (5500 rpm shift)
NV3500 + 3.42: 1>2 at 34 mph, 2>3 at 59 mph, 3>4 at 99 mph (5500 rpm shift)
Just for giggles, here is the T56 + 4.56 vs. NV3500 + 3.42:
And NV3500 vs. 4L60, both with 3.42s. 3rd and 4th in the automatic are the same as 4th and 5th in the manual.