So we tried 5 SUVs today:
New: Rav-4, CRV, CX7
old: 2002 Rav-4, 2006 Element
2002 rav4: was just like our old one and provided a baseline. A very nice compact SUV. Jaunty, nimble, slightly cramped in back, but lots of goodness.
2006 Element: I dug it. down on power relative to the others, but tons of space, rubber floors, open greenhouse. A perfect urban rig that can take construction stuff, kayaks, mountain bikes, et cetera. massive rear legroom, taught handling. My wife thought it was cute, but too bulky for her, and the suicide rear doors didn't appeal.
I thought that the new Rav-4 was the best overall vehicle: reasonably powerful (4 cylinder version), smooth, spacious, best ride, quiet. It's got a swiss army knife full of seat and storage options. It was like the older one grown up. My only bitch was that it seems to have sacrificed some handling for ride. It's a bit mushy - more so than the others.
The CRV was very similar to the Rav4. It felt more svelt, and had slightly taughter handling. I don't like the looks as much, but my wife prefered it.
The CX7 was a pleasant surprise. It had the best handling and was the most car-like. It actually had some personality, seats with actual side bolsters and such. It's also a good looker. The main negatives are the rear seat and storage area are noticably smaller than the other new SUVs. They were clearly having the most trouble selling them, and the salesman was ready to deal, whereas the Toyota guy had a "I don't really care if you buy or not. I've got the best E36 M3" attitude.
Sunday we'll get one of these puppies. More to come.