In reply to russde :
We owned it from 39k miles to 127k miles, bought it as a CPO vehicle. Had no issues with it from 39k miles to 113k miles, typical Toyota stuff, so tires, brakes, oil, gas etc. The Dealer did the timing belt/water pump for us under CPO because the water pump was beginning to weep some.
From 113k-127k I did a ton of work. I spent $7k on it in that time period, which was about 18 months with me doing almost all the work myself. Some was basic maintenance but a lot wasn't. Here's the list...
Tires, front brakes, alignment, serpentine belt, spark plugs, air filter, cabin air filter, water leak on the drivers front roof rack foot (was leaking onto the fuse box and causing the truck to freak out electrically), LED front headlight bulbs, gas strut mod for the rear door, Tundra windshield washer nozzles, battery, radiator, alternator, battery again (alternator torched it on its way out), both front axles, shocks/struts (got lucky and grabbed a complete TRD Pro 4Runner setup off craigslist basically new for almost nothing), then the radiator 2 days before a winter cyclone. That forced me to take it to the dealer and pay an enormous amount to have it fixed before the storm as it was my sole winter driver.
The nail in the coffin was when the steering rack started to leak. It was also at the mileage where the secondary air pump fails, along with the rear air suspension, so I knew I'd have to replace those too. My state does an OBD2 scan for emissions, so I couldn't just delete the secondary air pump. The steering rack was a ~$2800 job at the Toyota Indy shop. Between that and me doing the secondary air pump and rear air springs I would've spent practically what the truck was worth in maintenance in 1.5 years.
I was just done with it, I was tired of constantly working on it. Yes, you could certainly argue that I'd pretty much replaced everything and after fixing the steering rack, secondary air pump and rear air springs would have another 100k trouble free miles but I'd had enough. If I hadn't been doing the work myself the total would've easily been double what I paid. This wasn't even including any of the fun stuff I wanted to do like upgrade the stereo to a double din apple car play unit, maybe some offroad gear, etc, etc.