Here's the thing, you're going round and round in circles. It will never stop until you just pick what you want. There will always be another car that has different virtues, you're not going to get one that has every single one. Recap it this way for yourself and then pick from there:
B segment cars: they are what they are, the cheapest of the econo boxes on the road. That doesn't mean they are penalty boxes, but their primary mission is point A to point B for as little money as possible. The Fit and Mazda2 happen to have the most sporting characteristics of the bunch, and I am a big fan of both. I wouldn't even agree the Mazda has a sportier platform, they are equal. However, they are economy cars. They are ridiculously slow, and are pretty spartan. You would have fun on a track day, but make no mistake you would be a rolling roadblock.
The Civic, Mazda3, Focus ,Cobalt/HHR SS, Protege is the next step up. They are economy cars at heart, so many of the same things apply. However, they are quicker and overall more capable. This becomes especially true when you're talking about the support models such as the SS or the Si. They will feel a little less raw, but will be significantly quicker on a track.
The Celica and Prelude are sports coupes. They will be more sporty feeling than any of these other cars. The SS cars from GM are quicker by the stopwatch but these cars will feel more sporty overall. They are a lot of fun but will not have that complete raw feeling you've talked about. Personally I'd forget the Frisbee twins. Too expensive and too trouble prone.
I know you said you aren't interested, but I'm telling you don't rule out the Honda accord. There is a reason it has won countless awards from automotive journalists. It's an amazing car, and is very capable on the track.
I went through this exact exercise with all three of my kids recently. Forget the cool Factor. What will be cool is the smile on your face when you pick the car that you want for fun. What it looks like doesn't matter. As a racer and an instructor, I can tell you once I strapped in the car I have no clue what it looks like on the outside anymore.
Pick one and go have fun!