More vicarious car-shopping fun at GRM!
Trying to decide what pre-all-the-active-driver-aids car to get to replace my wife's Audi Q5 (I'll write all that up when it finishes unfolding). Suffice it to say that between a year with the Q5 plus the loaner Q8 (there are non-driver-aid issues as well), we've tried modern driving assistants, and while non-Audi options may be different, we don't feel like rolling those dice again at this time.
To be clear, quite happy with ABS, TC, DSC, airbags, backup cameras, parking distance sensors, and don't even mind blind-spot alerts so long as they can be made not to beep. It's the active "the car is making inputs" stuff that we've found to be...
F31 BMW ('11-'19ish? 3 series touring):
Anyway, we're leaning toward finding something that we like enough to make it worth the refresh and upkeep. My wife really liked the F30 3-series which were available locally from a car share company for a while. I liked them pretty well, too, and they stand out to me as the best automatic I've ever driven (ZF 8HP IIRC, or a relative, like the GRMers have been talking about putting in their tube chassis car; no mushy feeling at the throttle), and this car will be an automatic, whichever way we go. This is roughly same-era BMW as our F56 Mini, which I've found to be okay to work on (still learning my way around TIS-derived manual, don't like how many single-use fasteners there are if for no other reason than it's a pain to have to inventory and order them all just to do a relatively simple task), with more complexity and tighter packaging than older stuff, but I'm kinda digging working on something new enough all the fasteners still work... Anyhow, I digress.
E39 (turn of the century 5 series touring):
The E39's clearly a bit older and would likely need more up-front work in addition to the over-time degradation. The good news is that these are at or near their nadir of value, I think. In any case, with an eye on having it for a few years, there's budget room in "downgrading" from a '21 Q5 to just drop the thing off at the local indy BMW shop and say "do the laundry list" if I'm not ready to sort it. But that's sort of the idea; preempt everything we know about (bushings, dampers, cooling system) so that a bunch of likely candidates for stuff cropping up in the next few years all just get reset up front.
I like that the E39 predates (I think) much of the "authenticate the new battery to your car" BMW anti-DIY stuff, but I'm also pretty sure there are understood DIY approaches to these things. I already have a Schwaben OBD2 reader with BMW pack for the MINI, and I'm perfectly happy to expand the tools/knowledge as needed. Some of this is just updating my knowledge for slightly more modern tinkering beyond this car...
...and more:
Volvos are compelling for a similar sort of "this is a slightly older but very nice car, with enough aftermarket support to keep it going well." Or so goes the theory. I know a lot less about these than BMWs. The AWD systems I gather on... either side of 2000(?) sounded to be fragile and hard or impossible to replace? If you get one that's working and drive sympathetically, do they go off? What eras lend themselves to long term care and repair? I think either the 850/V70 or V50-sized wagons are worth considering.
Probably the 2, 7, and 9 series Volvos are too archaic, and similarly I'm worried about W123, W124 Mercedes, while newer Mercedes just scare me on the grounds that the zeitgeist suggests they've piled on the complexities and lost the W124-and-earlier focus on solidity, quality, longevity... And a friend had a '9x C-class whose wiring harness's insulation fell off like someone was playing Motorhead at it. But I'm here to ask what to consider, and that includes what I don't know about the cars I don't know much about as well as the stuff I don't know about the cars I know a little more about. I mean, my across the street neighbor (who farms out his car work as far as I know) says he's much happier with the similar-or-slightly-newer Mercs he's replaced his E39-ish BMWs with from a reliability standpoint...
What suggesteth the hive?