(Long post warning) I'm really fascinated by what you are saying, Pete. I trust your knowledge, having read your comments for years. Same with you Tom1200.
So am I all wrong about Subarus? I'm really open to that possibility. I don't want to be the type of person who develops a story about something and then is married to it and shuts out evidence that the story isn't true. I want to stay open in my thinking about all things.
Let me share a bit about my experiences and why I think the way I do about Subarus. I've been on this forum for something like 10 years, and I've gotten the impression from this forum that I'd do well to steer clear of Subarus generally. I can't remember the exact comments or situations, so I get that's vague, but it's just a general sense I have that I think I've gotten here. I'm sure there have been plenty of stories about blown HGs.
Have I walked away with the wrong impression from GRM? Are Subarus better than I think?
Then there's real life. I can't think of a single car brand that has impacted my life more negatively. To wit, my roommate in college had an 80s Legacy that overheated up a hill, it was kaput, and the whole ordeal added hours to the trip. Another friend in college had a late 90s Outback that overheated, leaving him without a car. My current neighbor has an Impreza wagon, (mid 2000s) with rod knock and this is after it just got a new engine. And then there's the aforementioned 2008 Forester that I drive that is on its second engine, and it's consuming coolant already. Another friend has an '09 Forester that has needed new axles and a host of other things I can't even remember. Meanwhile my dads 2008 RAV4 V6 has needed absolutely nothing.
I have never been stranded by another car company more than Subaru.
I also know a guy who ran an indie shop, and he told me Subarus put his kids through college. He told me to buy Hondas.
None of these are Subarus above are turbocharged either. Ironically, my best friend in my 20s had a WRX that never gave him problems.
I also question the design of the flat four. It seems problematic given all the leaks I hear about, and have seen. But I'm no engineer.
I read your post, and that Tom has all this good experience, and it just really doesn't make sense with my reality, both in real life and the impression I've gotten here (I'll skip the internet lore). If I want a car that isn't going to cost a lot and need a lot of maintenance, I'd better steer clear of Subarus. But I'm open to my reality being changed.
I get this is all subjective experience and a tiny sample size, but it's definitely soured me on the brand. Which is sad, because I agree that they do offer something. The AWD and MT combo is rare. And I don't mind the way the Forester drives. I don't like the engine much, but the chassis is pretty good. I also like that there are speciality shops galore in the area (at least three) so you can find a mechanic who knows the car (then I wonder, why are there so many shops for one make, is that suspicious?)
Anyway, sorry for the novel. But I'd love to hear any thoughts about what I've shared.