z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
12/1/20 9:58 a.m.

My immune compromised lady is quarantined in a spare bedroom after contracting the 'Rona, likely from her boss at work. Who also tested positive over the weekend. I think at this point, literally everyone she works with has contracted it at some point the last 4 months. And it's really stupid because outside of the people who travel for schools, they can all work from home.

I was just tested today and I'm still negative for COVID. So she will be staying in the spare bedroom until next week. She no longer has a fever and isn't having trouble breathing, but has a harsh cough and generally feels like she has been run over by a truck.

 

My dad has been diagnosed with liver cancer. He's had cirrhosis for years, so his surgeon thinks he would have to remove so much of his liver he wouldn't be left with enough to live. So it seems they are going to try a liver ablation and get him on the transplant list. 

 

mr2s2000elise
mr2s2000elise UltraDork
12/1/20 9:59 a.m.

Sorry to hear. Hope she gets better ans you stay negative 

best wishes for your dad 

Stampie (FS)
Stampie (FS) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
12/1/20 10:01 a.m.

Sorry things are hitting you hard.  I’m sending good vibes your way. 

Duke
Duke MegaDork
12/1/20 10:06 a.m.

Wow, that's all tough to face.  Best of luck to your family.

 

mtn (Forum Supporter)
mtn (Forum Supporter) MegaDork
12/1/20 10:11 a.m.

Best of luck to you and yours. Slightly similar situation here, though we're lucky it does not seem to have spread beyond the person in the family who got it, and his only symptoms were loss of smell and taste.

golfduke
golfduke HalfDork
12/1/20 10:13 a.m.

one day at a time, friend...  One thing, one tiny little step at a time.  Stay healthy, get your wife healthy, then focus your energy on other things.  It will get better, I promise you. 

 

mad_machine (Forum Supporter)
mad_machine (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
12/1/20 10:14 a.m.

I hope all works out for you z31.  Sounds like a really bad hand.

Placemotorsports
Placemotorsports GRM+ Memberand Reader
12/1/20 10:19 a.m.

Stay healthy and keep your head up

clutchsmoke
clutchsmoke UltraDork
12/1/20 11:47 a.m.
Placemotorsports said:

Stay healthy and keep your head up

 

Jesse Ransom (FFS)
Jesse Ransom (FFS) GRM+ Memberand UltimaDork
12/1/20 11:54 a.m.

Oof. I hope everything goes absolutely as well as possible, and everybody has a much-improved '21-onward.

Hungary Bill (Forum Supporter)
Hungary Bill (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand PowerDork
12/1/20 12:08 p.m.

2020 can suck a whole bag of Richards.  I'm pulling for you guys, and if there's anything I can do I know you wont hesitate to ask.

NOHOME
NOHOME MegaDork
12/1/20 12:16 p.m.

Yeah, I feel your pain here. This year just wont let up.

 

Positive ju ju being sent to you and all yours

captdownshift (Forum Supporter)
captdownshift (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand UltimaDork
12/1/20 12:51 p.m.

Make sure she stays hydrated, more than just water as well. Cheaty electrolyte concoctions help. 

Brett_Murphy (Ex-Patrón)
Brett_Murphy (Ex-Patrón) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
12/1/20 1:27 p.m.

Sorry your year is going so bad, Z31.

z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
12/1/20 2:13 p.m.
captdownshift (Forum Supporter) said:

Make sure she stays hydrated, more than just water as well. Cheaty electrolyte concoctions help. 

Yeah, just picked up 6 bottles of pedialyte on the way home from getting my test this morning. 

Thanks everyone. I know I'm not the only one having a rough year.

Hopefully the vaccines prove effective and safe once widespread use begins and we can try to get back to some type of normal.

ultraclyde (Forum Supporter)
ultraclyde (Forum Supporter) UltimaDork
12/1/20 2:17 p.m.

Good vibes to you and yours. I hope things even out for you and everyone gets good outcomes.

Scotty Con Queso
Scotty Con Queso SuperDork
12/1/20 2:47 p.m.

Wishing you and your family positive news for a change. 

Ive always been one to never talk about how much (insert year here) sucks, but man, 2020 just plain sucks even for my little slice of the world. No covid yet, but I was diagnosed with Melanoma this year and working from home and being quarantined has changed me and my mood/attitude. Lucky to still have a good job and be cancer free now, but this year just won't quit.

thedoc
thedoc GRM+ Memberand Reader
12/1/20 2:50 p.m.

I didn't realize how much I hated 2020 until I received a 2021 calendar and almost burst into tears of happiness.

z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
12/1/20 3:28 p.m.
Scotty Con Queso said:

Wishing you and your family positive news for a change. 

Ive always been one to never talk about how much (insert year here) sucks, but man, 2020 just plains sucks even for my little slice of the world. No covid yet, but I was diagnosed with Melanoma this year and working from home and being quarantined has changed me. Lucky to have a good job and be cancer free now, but still, this year just won't quit.

Glad you were able to beat it!

I feel you on working from home. I don't think it would be so bad if everything else was normal. I've become so used to it now, I'll probably try to go full remote, or at least flex (1-2 days in the office vs 3 days like before this all started) when the offices open back up. 

From what I understand the US offices aren't going to open until there is a vaccine that most have taken.

759NRNG (Forum Partidario)
759NRNG (Forum Partidario) UltraDork
12/1/20 6:19 p.m.

Prayers for you , your sweetie and your father .....peace out

dropstep
dropstep UberDork
12/1/20 8:42 p.m.

My exact feeling today. They can't figure out what's causing the pain and spasms in my arms and chest, and it seems my wife miscarried. Won't get 100% confirmation of that until a Friday appointment but today's been more E36 M3 on top of a E36 M3 year. 

z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
12/2/20 8:28 a.m.

Spoke to my dad last night, as usual, he tends to not always give me the full story so I don't worry as much.

Apparently, even with eating more than he normally does, he's lost 16 pounds in the last 5 weeks. And he's never been a big guy, now down to 135 at 5'8". So he's already starting to waste away a bit, he's in real trouble.

Has a meeting with the radiology team tomorrow and another surgeon on Monday, hoping they will be able to get him in for the ablation next week.

mtn (Forum Supporter)
mtn (Forum Supporter) MegaDork
12/2/20 8:36 a.m.
dropstep said:

My exact feeling today. They can't figure out what's causing the pain and spasms in my arms and chest, and it seems my wife miscarried. Won't get 100% confirmation of that until a Friday appointment but today's been more E36 M3 on top of a E36 M3 year. 

sad

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