A what would you do question

any news?

Nope nothing. Literally.

Since the last update she has not hardly said a word to me. In fact the last real interaction I had with her was we (the class) was walking down the hall to a lab and her back back started to slip (she is still on her crutches). She asked the guy next to her to help her but he just ignored her. I reached up and fixed it for her. She looked back saw it was me looked quite shocked blushed a little said thanks then could not look at me the rest of class.

On a side note another of the girls has agreed to model for me for some photos for my photography class. Even offered to bring her friend who apparently has been looking for someone to take some photos of her similar to some of the old Marilyn Monroe ones.

Aside from that I have the Olds here now so I at least have that to help occupy my time.

Uh, yeah.... so what is the problem exactly?

fiat22turbo wrote: Uh, yeah.... so what is the problem exactly?

Aside from losing a person I had considered a really good friend...

Lose 1, Gain 2. No problems I see.

Kidding.

Like I had expressed before, better have had made the best of an opportunity than to have let it pass by.

I could understand how she's feeling a bit weird though...

From her point of view, if one my female friends told me a similar emotional outpouring, me being a relationship, regardless of how crappy it can be at time, would put strain on my being able to be friends with them. I don't want to end things with my girlfriend just because some seemingly perfect girl wants my nuts. I'm gonna end things on my own terms.

rebelgtp wrote:

fiat22turbo wrote: Uh, yeah.... so what is the problem exactly?

Aside from losing a person I had considered a really good friend...

Yeah, I know, I was trying to be funny. It is unfortunate that you've lost her as a friend. It is better to have taken the shot rather than suffer wondering what could have been. Who knows maybe she'll come around still.

Yeah I'm just giving her space and trying to not think about things so much.

The girl that agreed to model for me was talking about lap dances today lol.

rebelgtp wrote: Yeah I'm just giving her space and trying to not think about things so much. The girl that agreed to model for me was talking about lap dances today lol.

You've obviously been chasing the wrong girl, AND you're missing out on a golden (no, not that kind) of opportunity;

Date model. GIrl you like does what all girls do when they can't have what they want. They take it. You have a fun time with the model, and then you get the girl. WIN WIN!

Life is too short to chase the wrong skirt.

Find one that likes what you like.

It is so much more than just He'ing and She'ing

Any port in a storm ... will do for the night. But for long term ( greater than a month ) look for one who has the same interests and hobbies

As far as bumpin uglies... grab anyone and JUST DO IT Only the USA is so uptight and backward about 'fidelity' So much giult is dumped on us.

dude, you dont need a chick to make you happy man. just focus on YOU and the rest will come. Life is waaaaay too short to be upset or thinking constantly about what could have been and what not. ESPECIALLY when it comes to chicks. I just broke up with my chick of 4 years, And not even because it was bad. We were just going diffrent places in life. Yes it hurts and yes i miss her when im all alone with nothing to do. But at the end of the day im still curtis. I have a job, a ton of friends, and an rx7. And im not dead. There will be other chicks. And based on the fact that you are always talking about school you must be young. You still got a long way to go buddy. And if my little pep talk doesnt help, Just remember that you should never been down about life because the only reason you feel sooo E36 M3tty about this situation is because you know what it feels like to be super happy. Not everyone can say that.

Or just head over to the local tittty bar. Usually makes me feel good.

curtis wrote: dude, you dont need a chick to make you happy man. just focus on YOU and the rest will come. Life is waaaaay too short to be upset or thinking constantly about what could have been and what not. ESPECIALLY when it comes to chicks. I just broke up with my chick of 4 years, And not even because it was bad. We were just going diffrent places in life. Yes it hurts and yes i miss her when im all alone with nothing to do. But at the end of the day im still curtis. I have a job, a ton of friends, and an rx7. And im not dead. There will be other chicks. And based on the fact that you are always talking about school you must be young. You still got a long way to go buddy. And if my little pep talk doesnt help, Just remember that you should never been down about life because the only reason you feel sooo E36 M3tty about this situation is because you know what it feels like to be super happy. Not everyone can say that. Or just head over to the local tittty bar. Usually makes me feel good.

I enjoy roast beef sandwiches as well!

HiTempguy wrote:

rebelgtp wrote: Yeah I'm just giving her space and trying to not think about things so much. The girl that agreed to model for me was talking about lap dances today lol.

You've obviously been chasing the wrong girl, AND you're missing out on a golden (no, not that kind) of opportunity; Date model. GIrl you like does what all girls do when they can't have what they want. They take it. You have a fun time with the model, and then you get the girl. WIN WIN!

Almost exactly what I was thinking. This could work out very well for you.

curtis wrote: dude, you dont need a chick to make you happy man. just focus on YOU and the rest will come. Life is waaaaay too short to be upset or thinking constantly about what could have been and what not. ESPECIALLY when it comes to chicks. I just broke up with my chick of 4 years, And not even because it was bad. We were just going diffrent places in life. Yes it hurts and yes i miss her when im all alone with nothing to do. But at the end of the day im still curtis. I have a job, a ton of friends, and an rx7. And im not dead. There will be other chicks. And based on the fact that you are always talking about school you must be young. You still got a long way to go buddy. And if my little pep talk doesnt help, Just remember that you should never been down about life because the only reason you feel sooo E36 M3tty about this situation is because you know what it feels like to be super happy. Not everyone can say that. Or just head over to the local tittty bar. Usually makes me feel good.

Actually I'm doing pretty good. I was down for a bit but I'm doing good now, getting the Cutlass in and actually having a project car again helps. But actually doin quite good. Only thing that really has me down is yesterday my aunt called to let me know her dog died. He was the last pup from my dog I had when I was a kid.

Oh and I'm 29, went back to school after working the last 9 years and decided to o for something new.

I've been in your situation. Had girl that was a friend (also had a long distance bf), told her I wanted more and ended up not being friends as a result. It sucked at the time, but at least I didn't spend any more time trying to persue a relationship with someone who was not interested. Shortly after that I met my wife, so in the long run it was for the best.