96DXCivic
96DXCivic SuperDork
10/24/10 10:52 p.m.

Ok so it is my girlfriend and mine's five year anniversary on Thursday and we won't be able to be together for it since we got to college 3 and half hours apart. I had the idea of taking a trip to somewhere over either our winter or spring break. It needs to be within easy driving distance of Huntsville. I am not sure where and Nashville is out. Any ideas of cool cities to see.

HiTempguy
HiTempguy HalfDork
10/24/10 11:20 p.m.
96DXCivic wrote: Ok so it is my girlfriend and mine's five year anniversary on Thursday and we won't be able to be together for it since we got to college 3 and half hours apart. I had the idea of taking a trip to somewhere over either our winter or spring break.

While you're on that trip, may I suggest getting married? Jesus, E36 M3 or get off the pot man!

96DXCivic
96DXCivic SuperDork
10/24/10 11:22 p.m.
HiTempguy wrote:
96DXCivic wrote: Ok so it is my girlfriend and mine's five year anniversary on Thursday and we won't be able to be together for it since we got to college 3 and half hours apart. I had the idea of taking a trip to somewhere over either our winter or spring break.
While you're on that trip, may I suggest getting married? Jesus, E36 M3 or get off the pot man!

Lolz. I want to be able to afford a nice ring though and we both want to finish college before we jump off that bridge.

gamby
gamby SuperDork
10/25/10 12:03 a.m.
96DXCivic wrote: Lolz. I want to be able to afford a nice ring though and we both want to finish college before we jump off that bridge.

You might even want to take a break and play the field a bit post-college lest you have a complete life crisis around age 30 because you never "spread you wings/sowed your oats". You do a TON of growing/maturing between 22 and 28--true story.

Just a piece of advice from someone whose circle of friends/acquaintances/relatives his age is WELL over the 50% divorce rate...

tuna55
tuna55 Dork
10/25/10 4:55 a.m.
96DXCivic wrote:
HiTempguy wrote:
96DXCivic wrote: Ok so it is my girlfriend and mine's five year anniversary on Thursday and we won't be able to be together for it since we got to college 3 and half hours apart. I had the idea of taking a trip to somewhere over either our winter or spring break.
While you're on that trip, may I suggest getting married? Jesus, E36 M3 or get off the pot man!
Lolz. I want to be able to afford a nice ring though and we both want to finish college before we jump off that bridge.

Don't "afford a nice ring". Mine was in the 2K range. It was awesome and seriously one of the nicest rings I looked at. If you overspend on a ring you're just wasting money. You can haggle with those guys, too.

I have nothing to add to the actual question.

TJ
TJ SuperDork
10/25/10 7:08 a.m.

In reply to 96DXCivic:

Which direction is she from Huntsville?

TRoglodyte
TRoglodyte Reader
10/25/10 7:11 a.m.

Ober Gatlinburg in the smokies?

jrw1621
jrw1621 SuperDork
10/25/10 7:20 a.m.

Chattanooga is about the only big thing in between.

Giant Purple Snorklewacker
Giant Purple Snorklewacker SuperDork
10/25/10 7:28 a.m.

Barber Motorsports Park is right there. I'm sure some club has an HPDE going on that you can get in on. Nothing says I love love you like letting her beat the E36 M3 out of your car for a whole weekend.

Platinum90
Platinum90 SuperDork
10/25/10 7:56 a.m.
HiTempguy wrote:
96DXCivic wrote: Ok so it is my girlfriend and mine's five year anniversary on Thursday and we won't be able to be together for it since we got to college 3 and half hours apart. I had the idea of taking a trip to somewhere over either our winter or spring break.
While you're on that trip, may I suggest getting married? Jesus, E36 M3 or get off the pot man!

I have been with my SO for 7 years without a ring. I am hoping to change that early next year.

we have lots of debt to pay off before getting the ring.

96DXCivic
96DXCivic SuperDork
10/25/10 8:47 a.m.
tuna55 wrote:
96DXCivic wrote:
HiTempguy wrote:
96DXCivic wrote: Ok so it is my girlfriend and mine's five year anniversary on Thursday and we won't be able to be together for it since we got to college 3 and half hours apart. I had the idea of taking a trip to somewhere over either our winter or spring break.
While you're on that trip, may I suggest getting married? Jesus, E36 M3 or get off the pot man!
Lolz. I want to be able to afford a nice ring though and we both want to finish college before we jump off that bridge.
Don't "afford a nice ring". Mine was in the 2K range. It was awesome and seriously one of the nicest rings I looked at. If you overspend on a ring you're just wasting money. You can haggle with those guys, too. I have nothing to add to the actual question.

I mean I couldn't even swing a $200 ring right now.

96DXCivic
96DXCivic SuperDork
10/25/10 8:47 a.m.

In reply to TJ:

North. She is at Murray State in KY.

TRoglodyte
TRoglodyte Reader
10/25/10 9:05 a.m.

Corvette museum in Bowling Green Kentucky?

TJ
TJ SuperDork
10/25/10 9:06 a.m.

Ok, I think I got something for you. May I suggest a visit to here?

I've never been myself and will more than likely never go there. It is in between KY and Huntsville. Not sure what there is to do there, but based on the name it sounds like it could be fun.

Probally not what you are looking for as far as an anniversary.

pinchvalve
pinchvalve GRM+ Memberand SuperDork
10/25/10 10:04 a.m.

Dude, I have a $$$$ ring from my wife's first marriage sitting in a drawer. Depreciation on engagements rings is 99.9999999% as soon as you leave the store. Buy used and you'll save a ton!

carguy123
carguy123 SuperDork
10/25/10 10:07 a.m.

What does a ring have to do with anything? If the ring really matters then the marriage doesn't

HiTempguy
HiTempguy HalfDork
10/25/10 11:53 a.m.
carguy123 wrote: What does a ring have to do with anything? If the ring really matters then the marriage doesn't

Why do cars matter?

To a girl, the ring may mean everything. It may not.

Don't listen to the guy who suggested an "open" relationship, I'm sorry but that is plain retarded. If you like someone, you like someone, you don't have to go "test the waters" elsewhere to realize what you have.

Anyways, congrats on having a relationship for 5+ years and for thinking about things the smart way. Money is one of the number one factors in ending relationships!

96DXCivic
96DXCivic SuperDork
10/25/10 12:01 p.m.

I was thinking within a 6 hour drive or so. I like the idea of the Smokies.

TJ
TJ SuperDork
10/25/10 6:40 p.m.

In reply to 96DXCivic:

Very over-run with tourists in the summer. I've not been in the off season.

914Driver
914Driver SuperDork
10/26/10 5:58 a.m.
carguy123 wrote: What does a ring have to do with anything? If the ring really matters then the marriage doesn't

Mrs. 914 said "Nah, it'll be in soapy water and scooping baby E36 M3, take me to dinner and call it even".

That was >30 years ago.

oldsaw
oldsaw SuperDork
10/26/10 7:58 a.m.
96DXCivic wrote: I was thinking within a 6 hour drive or so. I like the idea of the Smokies.

Be careful if you plan a visit during "leaf season" - unless you like perpetual traffic jams.

GSMNP is THE most-visited national park in the system. http://www.nps.gov/grsm/planyourvisit/things2do.htm

TJ
TJ SuperDork
10/26/10 8:16 a.m.
TJ wrote: Ok, I think I got something for you. May I suggest a visit to here? I've never been myself and will more than likely never go there. It is in between KY and Huntsville. Not sure what there is to do there, but based on the name it sounds like it could be fun. Probally not what you are looking for as far as an anniversary.

Less crowded than the Smokies.

Karl La Follette
Karl La Follette HalfDork
10/26/10 12:38 p.m.

take her to five guys for burgers ,buy her a five pak of smirnoffs , get her five candy bars /chocolates ,five things for school binders /pens/post its, give her 5 piks of yourself,5 candles,5 rolls of toilet paper ect

Brett_Murphy
Brett_Murphy GRM+ Memberand Reader
10/26/10 1:22 p.m.

If she likes outdoors kind of things, hit a mountain lake, get a cabin and spend the time together hiking, fishing, etc.

This is an odd idea, but if there are any Folk Schools in your area, you can take a class together.

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