Sharing this for those who may have an interest in homeschooling (not to coerce)...
My wife made an interesting comment today:
My daughter starting homeschooling again this past week. She's been in an excellent public High School for the past 2 years, but prior to that was homeschooled. The first week went great. All of a sudden my daughter is motivated again, and the dynamic shifted almost by magic. She seems engaged, and has not for the past 6 months (and really did not for the past 2 years). I had credited the disengagement to teenage angst.
Today I asked my wife what she thought the difference was between "homeschooling" and being "schooled at home". The Spring was a disaster, and we are already seeing great improvements.
My wife said, "Control".
In my head, there is virtually no difference between being homeschooled and being schooled at home. I couldn't see why good education at home couldn't be accomplished while staying enrolled in the public High School. Just engage. Show a little initiative. If the work is not challenging, take on a few extra things. But I was wrong.
My daughter didn't have control over her education. She was told what to do, and didn't need any initiative. It was a VERY low bar. Now, it's HER responsibility. She has to schedule herself, plan her classes, figure out how to fit in her job, determine her own success. Its HER'S. She is taking challenging classes, classes that she is passionate about, and has also registered for 10 additional credits of dual enrollment college credit at USC. She will likely have earned an associates degree by the time she graduates from High School.
She is maintaining the connections she can. Still planning on a European trip with the school (when they permit it), still engaged with her friends. Looking to connect with some theatrical opportunities (she loves that).
I'm stunned at the change that is occuring with the only real difference being she is no longer registered in the public school.
I understand homeschooling is not for everyone. But it is worth consideration for some people who are schooling from home anyway.