First off - the ability to have this discussion carry on for days is a testament to the ability of folks here to genuinely seeks and share opinions.
This is my favorite place on the internet.
On this topic I find myself conflicted for the first time in my life. I grew up in a middle class household in the middle of rustbelt USA. Family background is catholic educated conservative.
From age 8 I was out target shooting with my family. We have a very structured firearm / dangerous stuff training process. At a high level it involves a lot of observation and discussion before moving on to air rifles, single shot 22 rifles, then semi auto 22 rifles, then on to centerfire stuff at a later time. Outside of air rifles all shooting took place at a gun club surrounded by a lot of generally like minded folks. Everything was always locked up but things like reloading equipment and the associated stuff were always present.
Firearms were always a sport/modification/learning tool much like my skateboard, bmx bikes, and now cars. This tweak, modify, right tool for right job thing is how my collection of firearms occurred. Xmas or bdays were always an occasion for ammo or other firearm furniture to be gifted as it was something the family took part in together.
Starting 12ish on, the family got heavily involved with competitive pistol shooting. Getting serious at shooting is like anything else. We hit the range three days a week with a competition each weekend somewhere. All the practice means a lot of work reloading. When we weren’t out practicing we were doing some prep. Think casting bullets with pots of lead, priming and depriving shells, or loading the brass polisher (a very GRM recycled 5 gallon bucket and ice cream maker).
As I grew up I realized that I could mention competitive shooting in discussion but needed to edit the rest of the discussion. It was clearly a different thing that we did as a familiar vs other kids I was growing up with.
Fast forward to me as a 40 yr old family guy with school age kiddos watching the mass shooting vision tv. I’m doing the same shooting, training, safety safety safety, and fun focus Dad used with me. I’m using this a way to talk about fun thing but also danger and responsibility.
I struggle with the split I see in the firearm population between “traditional” and carry focused folks. While I have brought a concealed carry firearm with the family on road trips when we were traveling in off hours I am not a ccw guy. That isn’t a judgement good or bad on folks that do, many of my family and friends do the ccw thing.
As a statement I have found that when I have been in these life/death conflict situations in the past (multiple times but all self inflicted) I had no firearm, even when others did. Because I had no firearm, I had to come up with an alternate plan. When the gun is available it is where you think of first, based on the few times I have carried. When there isn’t one available you work plan a-z before thinking of it.
I am an ardent 2nd amendment fan but I struggle with the general capability/training of folks With firearms. Out of time convenience mire than half the time I have a chance to shoot, I end up at some commercial range like a Readyline or Point Blank with no membership required. These places are REALLY different from the private membership rages where you need to be vouched for by two members and voted in after discussion. I think generally these places represent the average American gun owner much better than the niche ranges.
This is not to say there weren’t occasional bad actors at the private range but at the commercial ranges safety is really challenging. At the private range it is your responsibility as a member to go correct the bad behavior. As you can imagine this can sometimes be awkward or confrontational but it is everyone’s responsibility and generally is handled easily.
The unsafe manners, handling, and attitude of folks I see at the commercial ranges literally scares the e36m3 out of me. Most folks haven’t had a teacher or taken a class. Most folks didn’t have safe behavior drilled into them since third grade. In summation most folks are really not capable of safe firearm behavior. I get that this is very touchy and in no way meant to be judgemental, just an observation.
In in general I see these folks having just purchased a gun for ccw, I’m guessing these folks spent a afternoon at the farm shooting cans with an uncle or something. It’s great that they are interested but I suspect it’s more often out of fear than interest.
The issue I’d like to see improved is public safety and the volume of unintended shooting accidents. I think this could be done reasonably simply with some addition classes, qualification to purchase, and storage laws. I get how controversial this is and it depends on finding middle ground without overstepping.
We’ll never fix crazy but could make it harder for that group to get firearms easily. We can fix that humans operate at two sigma and will make mistakes. Safe storage/training could drastically improve user knowledge and safety.
No clue how anything useful will come out of the polarized political environment or deadlocked government but at least there are discussions taking place.