Sorry, I forgot to follow-up. We did Epcot one day, Magic Kingdom another and also went to Legoland. The remaining days we hung out at the resort, which was pretty stellar. We had an enormous three bedroom, two bath suite with a full kitchen, which was fine for six adults plus cots/playpens for four young kids.
We did Epcot on a Tuesday. The park had a light crowd and it was easy to schedule ride times and meal reservations. Epcot is a pretty low key place compared to Magic Kingdom, but the fact that there were ten of us of all different ages, priorities, and ride restrictions made deciding what to do and when overly complicated. By early afternoon we had broken into groups of 3 or 4 and went our own way, which made for a better experience for everyone. We brought dollar store glow sticks, necklaces and light-up toys, so we saved a bundle once the sun went down (illuminated trinkets cost a bundle in the park).
Our day at Magic Kingdom was a mess. We went on a Friday and the park was packed. We were relying on guest passes belonging to a local season pass holder, and we sat at the gate for ages waiting to meet up with them. Once we were inside we found out that 'guests' like us couldn't schedule any fast passes, so riding any of the main attractions was out of the question until late into the evening (lines for the coasters were 1-2.5 hours at that point). Again, competing priorities led to some conflict and a lot of wondering around until we split up into groups and went our own way.
Legoland is 45 minutes SW of Disney, so a long way from Orlando. It's a small park but still expensive (we had free passes) and the rides are geared mostly on elementary to middle school age kids. The day we went it was cold (for Florida) and drizzling, so the park was nearly empty. Lines were very short and even though the park closes early, we were able to ride the coasters again and again and again for the last two hours of the day.
Lessons learned:
- The first hour that parks are open is magic--lines really haven't formed yet, the kids aren't tired and cranky yet, so arrive at the gates in time for opening and hit your favorite attractions as quickly as possible.
- It rains often in Orlando, so plan to catch stage shows or other lengthy indoor attractions around the weather forecast.
- Food in the parks is pretty expensive, so pack snacks but pack light. Food and drinks can be brought into the parks, but you have to haul what you brought around all day. A light pack of snack bars and empty sports bottles (filled as needed at water fountains) was enough to tide everyone over till dinner in the parks.
- Sit-down restaurants in the parks very pricey and the food isn't that great... but depending on the venue, the atmosphere and entertainment may make up for that, as does having a comfortable place for the whole family to sit down and relax for a while.
- Magic Kingdom is one of the most heavily attended attractions in the world. There's a ton to do, so you can't see everything in one day, and even on days of light crowds there will be significant lines. Plan ahead what your family wants to see, schedule fast passes, and keep a positive attitude about enjoying your time together even while in line, or frustration will set in and sour your experience.