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iansane
iansane GRM+ Memberand Dork
9/13/22 11:01 a.m.
bobzilla said:

In reply to Beer Baron :

I'd reply but at this point there really is no point. Several times I've been ambushed for simply asking questions or offering suggestions/advise for certain topics that worked for me. Much like modern society treats lepers like me, we just sit in the corner quietly.

Bob, do you understand how incendiary this kind of comment is? Coming into the middle of a group and saying, "You guys wouldn't like what I have to say!" and then not saying anything is anything but constructive. We're just going think you believe nazi's are on the moon or godzilla is behind the puppet governments or the pope is just three kids in a white cloak or some other craziness not that your opinion on personal freedoms are more freedom-y than most. This is the internet, so obviously there are going to be people that call you a big dummy head(we all know it's much worse but there's no reason to bring that negativity in here) for having the antithesis of your opinion but you're not going to get away from that. Taking those few bad comments as the mean opinion of everyone here is going to make you feel rallied against. Heck, it's just going to make this place more echo-y if you're silent.

You're not a leper. And you're not sitting in the corner quietly.

Appleseed
Appleseed MegaDork
9/13/22 11:12 a.m.
Beer Baron said:
iansane said:

It's not what you're saying that's getting downvoted. It's how you're saying it. You tend to start your thought with the foregone conclusion that everyone hates you and that what you're about to say will break the internet. This place is going to be at least a little echo-y since it's rooted in a singular passion that almost all of us have come here for, grassroots motorsports but for the most part the people that will genuinely engage you in conversation are willing to try and look at from you perspective. Obviously that doesn't mean they'll side with you, but they will be appreciative of what you've brought to the table. IF you bring it to the table without the baggage. I like you. I don't know you, but I like what you have to say even if a lot of it I disagree with.

My observations of the actual proclivities and biases of this board, and what actually gets threads locked.

This forum has a strong libertarian (small 'L') bias. Outside of that, it's fairly ideologically diverse. Because it is relatively large, it is more moderate than extremist. With the libertarian thing, I would say it skews slightly liberal of average (for the U.S.) on social issues relating to personal freedoms and self expression (e.g. LGBTQ rights, drug legalization, etc.) and slightly conservative of median in relation to economic/business issues. It is generally in favor of policies that are friendly to small businesses.

I don't have data to back it up, but if you were to plot things on a 2-axis "Liberal/Conservative" graph, there would be a big bulge in the middle that is probably highest *just* left of center (as defined in the U.S.) but with a very short tail towards liberal extremism and a relatively longer tail towards conservative extremism.

I think we see conservative voices and opinions getting into trouble because this forum has more and is more friendly towards conservative opinions.

There are a lot more anarcho-capitalist people here than socialist. There are a lot more people who are pro-gun than anti-gun. You do not have a strong liberal bloc on this forum espousing things like "defund the police". But the vast majority of members almost certainly sit in between the mainstream Democrat and Republican positions.

Because of that longer conservative tail, we get more conservative outliers who say things and raise opinions that upset the apple cart. We get more people who misinterpret disagreement with being polar opposite. We don't see this on the liberal side, because we just don't have any liberals saying things like, "If you're not anti-racist, then you're racist." It's not because conservative people are more prone to being that type of argumentative. Just that a certain portion of any population that holds a strong opinion will be, and we have enough people with strong conservative opinions and hardly any with strong liberal opinions.

What gets threads locked is a couple people arguing past each other to the point that all the moderates voices walk away from the conversation. The quickest way to get a thread locked is to say, "Well YOU want..." or to start making personal attacks.

We see downvotes for bringing up hot political points in expressly non-political threads (e.g. Memes) or for posting in an argumentative manner that uses straw man arguments, false dichotomies, ad hominem attacks, etc. but not for expressing unpopular opinions.

Edit: Note that I am *not* saying the more conservative members of this board are extremists. I don't believe they are. I think they are about as conservative as my aunt is liberal. She is pretty mainstream Democratic. Perhaps a bit left of median for the Democratic party, but not AOC liberal. Very active and and opinionated working for gun control. Not liberal-whacko. But liberal enough to mute on social media leading up to elections and to steer discussions away from certain topics at family gatherings.

This should be a sticky of some kind.

bobzilla
bobzilla MegaDork
9/13/22 11:21 a.m.

In reply to iansane :

You're right. I've sat quiet long enough. I've been attacked enough to know that yes, I am indeed a leper on sone topics. 
 

yes that is inflammatory because some of us are tired of the attacks from the same people. It's also true. Whether you want to believe it or not matters little to facts. There is an active group intent on silencing any opposing thoughts or ideas on certain topics. 
 

so fine. Do what you will. I'm berkeleying tired of it. People just can't not be shiny happy people lately.  

iansane
iansane GRM+ Memberand Dork
9/13/22 11:41 a.m.
bobzilla said:

In reply to iansane :

You're right. I've sat quiet long enough. I've been attacked enough to know that yes, I am indeed a leper on sone topics. 
 

yes that is inflammatory because some of us are tired of the attacks from the same people. It's also true. Whether you want to believe it or not matters little to facts. There is an active group intent on silencing any opposing thoughts or ideas on certain topics. 
 

so fine. Do what you will. I'm berkeleying tired of it. People just can't not be shiny happy people lately.  

Okay, sorry man. I'm sorry you've been treated like a leper. That really sucks. I'm really not trying to be sarcastic.

Although being inflammatory back at random times makes others (not the people who've attacked you) think you're a shiny happy person yourself. 

bobzilla
bobzilla MegaDork
9/13/22 11:49 a.m.

In reply to iansane :

I am an shiny happy person. I came to terms with that a long time ago but I try to be polite and treat people with respect and the way I'd want to be treated. But after a while anyone gets tired of the same E36 M3 over and over. 
 

this used to be a nice place to be. People were polite to one another. But in the last two years it's gone the same way as the real. Polarized, angry and unwilling to talk or compromise. Personally I feel like we've allowed ourselves to be played. This either/or dichotomy doesn't exist because the world is full of colors, non colors, smells shapes and sizes etc. I wish more could see this and the hypocrisy of our actions more. At least I know when I'm being a hypocrite and an ass. 

Driven5
Driven5 UberDork
9/13/22 12:00 p.m.

People painting themselves the victims from that which they are among the greatest perpetrators, while steadfastly refusing to look in the mirror for taking personal responsibility about their past, present, and future ability to influence the situation... Great moments in irony.

yupididit
yupididit PowerDork
9/13/22 12:01 p.m.

In reply to bobzilla :

This might be a loaded question: What things specifically have you/or anyone on this forum not been able to discuss? Because, I've seen threads that go on for pages and pages on polarizing topics. Usually it doesn't get locked until someone decides to direct their message a certain way. It never seems to be the content but the manner in which its expressed that gets threads locked.

Also, you clearly haven't been banned from posting so are you really being silenced/persecuted/etc?

SV reX
SV reX MegaDork
9/13/22 12:22 p.m.

In reply to yupididit :

I speak regularly with a couple people who HAVE been banned (and still lurk).  Intelligent and generally well-spoken  (though opinionated) people. 
 

Just because we don't see it, doesn't mean it's not happening. 

bobzilla
bobzilla MegaDork
9/13/22 12:26 p.m.
yupididit said:

In reply to bobzilla :

Also, you clearly haven't been banned from posting so are you really being silenced/persecuted/etc?

If I want to play in this playground, yes. I can say what I want and have the mob descend leading to a ban, but I'd prefer to stay on the playground and still e able to interact with the good people that are here. 

yupididit
yupididit PowerDork
9/13/22 12:28 p.m.

In reply to SV reX :

yeah thats why I'm asking him about his experience. 

SV reX
SV reX MegaDork
9/13/22 12:28 p.m.

I've seen the nastiness at times, including the "hope you die in a fire" comment directed at AnthonyGS. (THAT one really shocked me)
 

Im surprised some people have remained on board. 

I think it's meaningful to notice some of the people who have chosen to NOT participate much in the last few years. 

bobzilla
bobzilla MegaDork
9/13/22 12:31 p.m.
SV reX said:

I've seen the nastiness at times, including the "hope you die in a fire" comment directed at AnthonyGS. (THAT one really shocked me)
 

Im surprised some people have remained on board. 

I think it's meaningful to notice some of the people who have chosen to NOT participate much in the last few years. 

I, luckily, don't remember that. I don't care how much I disagree with anyone here I don't wish them ill will.

yupididit
yupididit PowerDork
9/13/22 12:32 p.m.
bobzilla said:
yupididit said:

In reply to bobzilla :

Also, you clearly haven't been banned from posting so are you really being silenced/persecuted/etc?

If I want to play in this playground, yes. I can say what I want and have the mob descend leading to a ban, but I'd prefer to stay on the playground and still e able to interact with the good people that are here. 

 

I'll be honest, I don't really remember much of your post before the last 2 days or so. So, maybe I'm missing out on a lot of the things your are referring to. Or your post dont stand out to me in a way that'll trigger a response. 

In regards to AnthonyGS, I do think people pile on him sometimes, but he also says things that seem (TO ME) like he's trying to trigger that response. I'm absolutely indifferent about if its him or other people because the answer lies in-between. 

SV reX
SV reX MegaDork
9/13/22 12:33 p.m.
yupididit said:

In reply to SV reX :

yeah thats why I'm asking him about his experience. 

Except it doesn't sound like you are asking for his experience or opinions. It sounds like you are daring him to prove the specific things that have not gone well for him. 
 

If I was Bob, I wouldn't answer. Because it sounds like it's just gonna lead to an argument.

It doesn't matter if you or I agree with his opinion of how he has been treated. What matters is that he has made it clear he does not always feel welcome. 
 

I'm glad he has chosen to stay. 

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