I need a bit of advice and I know you guys are good for it.
Its a novel, I know, but I appreciate those who take the time and grant some guidance/ encouragement
I graduated with my B.S. in Engineering (materials science) with a minor in Physics last May. I had a (extremely underpaid) research assistant-ship at the university that I stayed at through the end of August. I then moved up to Pittsburgh/ moved in with my girlfriend. She had a lease that it was prohibitive to get out of early, that lease is up at the end of February.
Neither one of us really likes Pittsburgh all that much, we just don't have any friends or anything going up here. The girlfriend got her Masters in Public History (geared towards being a museum curator) when I got my bachelors. Her job prospects in her field in Pittsburgh are slim to none, she works as a barista at starbucks right now. My prospects exist here, but arent that great.
So we decided early last fall that we were going to job hunt down around Baltimore, DC, NoVa, etc area as we both have a ton more connections down there as well as much better job prospects. (for her, a ton more museums, for me, much more tech sector)
Heres where it starts to suck, I have been putting out >10 job applications a week and since August I have had ONE interview (didnt pan out) in that time. Right now I am operating on my savings, which is going to have me tapped out in 5-6 months financially.
What we had said was that at the end of Feb we were moving down that way, ready or not. I am starting to wonder if that would be a good idea. Yes, the girlfriend can transfer to another starbucks down there to keep something coming in for her. I am not above getting an "in the meantime job", but havent been able to yet as we were looking to move rather soon.
The real killer is that no matter how we look at it, rent down there is going to be 2x as much as what we are paying right now.
I am starting to feel more then a little discouraged on my job hunt, I havent even had a call about one in over a month. On the bright side, I have a friend with a company down there that referred me with her company, which I have since put in 9 applications with, 5 of which now read "under consideration", but I am still discouraged.
In moving down there, we have to guess as to where to get an apartment, we will have to pay security deposits as well as having moving expenses.
on top of all this, my girlfriend has college loans that she has had to put under deferment for economic hardship, even with her starbucks job. The deferment ends about a year from now.
Is moving down there the right thing to do right now? I already feel a few steps from drowning with watching my savings diminish. (that said, I have no debt right now, which is something I avoid like the plague it is)
I just feel a bit lost.
P.S. If anyone has a line on a job in engineering in the DC/baltimore vicinity, I could defiantly use a hand.