Had a piggy bank labeled "flying lessons" since I was five...got my driver's license on my 16th birthday and drove from the DMV to a local high school to enroll in ground school...had my written pilot's license and endorsement to solo on my 17th birthday but had to wait 3 days to solo due to below VFR minimums...big flying fan boi here.
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My motivation to learn to fly is that I have a passion for vehicles and aircraft are the most sophisticated vehicle an average person can access.
As was said earlier, wanting to be able to get somewhere in hurry is a poor reason to get a pilot's license...less than 250 miles, a car is quicker as you've got to drive to the airport, check weather and NOTAMS (print them out as you need proof you did it), probably file a flight plan, preform preflight inspection, and then go...on the other end, fill tanks to prevent condensation, tie down, probably close flight plan and then drive to your destination. Also, if you're doing it right, you're going to be spent when you get to your destination if you fly as you should have been focusing intently the entire time. Over 400 miles, take a commercial flight as it's faster, cheaper, safer, more reliable, and less fatiguing. So, you've just got a small window of 250 to 400 miles where a private aircraft stands a chance of being faster and it'll still be more expensive, more dangerous, less reliable, and more fatiguing.
So, general avaition isn't about going fast, it's about freedom, it's about experiences, it's about meeting challanges and developing skills.
Honestly, I had a pretty tough situation growing up but I made it in life and I credit learning to fly, more than anything else, for that...I know a lot of people credit sports but I absolutely suck at sports and sweating isn't my thing so...
I really didn't have anyone encouraging me growing up but I realized that if I could, on my own, become a pilot by 17 and do really well at it (soloed at 15.5 hours with no time off the books - the legal minimum is 15) 97% on my written exam (70% is required for private pilot / 95% is required for flight instructor) both my flight instructor and the airport field commander were supper supportive and I could tell, authentically believed in my ability, I couldn't be such a bad guy.
I remember just before setting off on my first cross country solo flight overhearing my dad ask the the airport field commander if he thought I could handle it. He was a gruff, old, WWII naval flight instructor and I'll never forget what I overheard him say "don't repeat this to your son, I don't want him to get a swollen head, but he's one of the best god damn pilots I've ever trained".
That belief in me was something I really, really needed at that time and I know it significantly altered the whole trajectory of my life.
So, looking back, you may conclude that the effort / reward ratio wasn't worth it or you could discover something in yourself that makes you a better version of you forever; don't know.
If you want to move forward, there are a bunch of pilots here (myself included though I stopped flying years ago) that would be happy to provide guidance.