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matthewmcl
matthewmcl Dork
10/3/23 5:55 p.m.

Just that, cool day.

dyintorace
dyintorace GRM+ Memberand PowerDork
10/3/23 5:59 p.m.

Best day ever! Congratulations!! :)

Dusterbd13-michael
Dusterbd13-michael MegaDork
10/3/23 6:03 p.m.

Thats AMAZING!!!

god bless you for the lives you have changed. You are amazing people.

Woody (Forum Supportum)
Woody (Forum Supportum) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
10/3/23 6:19 p.m.

Congratulations to you and your whole family!

einy (Forum Supporter)
einy (Forum Supporter) Dork
10/3/23 6:23 p.m.

Fantastic !!!

759NRNG
759NRNG PowerDork
10/3/23 6:30 p.m.

how old ....how many

SV reX
SV reX MegaDork
10/3/23 6:31 p.m.

WooHoo!!

 

CONGRATULATIONS!!

John Welsh
John Welsh Mod Squad
10/3/23 6:39 p.m.

Amazing day for all!!!  

 

This picture is from the day I walked into a building with a brand new, empty car seat and came out with it full.  

759NRNG
759NRNG PowerDork
10/3/23 6:46 p.m.

precious

SoonToBeDatsun240ZGuy
SoonToBeDatsun240ZGuy MegaDork
10/3/23 6:57 p.m.

Good job, my man.

John Welsh
John Welsh Mod Squad
10/3/23 7:03 p.m.

Know what is available to you for maternity/paternity leave.  

We came close to adopting a 5 yr old.  Even at 5 years old, had that happened, my wife, a public school teacher, would have gotten a full maternity leave.  That is some critical bonding time. 
I was self employed.  

As it did happen, we adopted a 7 week old.  We found out on a Tuesday from the agency that there was a baby available and we could meet the baby on a Thursday night.  That positive meeting triggered a Friday and Sunday meeting.  Come Tues we got the word it was a sure thing and the baby would come home with us on Thursday.  That next morning (Weds) my wife went into school and said, "I won't be here tomorrow...or for the next 8 weeks...maternity leave."    

Teh E36 M3
Teh E36 M3 UltraDork
10/3/23 7:15 p.m.

Man, you are a saint. Thanks for being a great person. 

SoonToBeDatsun240ZGuy
SoonToBeDatsun240ZGuy MegaDork
10/3/23 7:46 p.m.

In reply to John Welsh :

I had a customer that had no children and was in his late 30's and got together with his family on Thanksgiving.  No idea that a week later his adoption came available. 

When his family got together for Christmas a few were blown away as some hadn't heard the news - when did this happen?  

wvumtnbkr
wvumtnbkr GRM+ Memberand PowerDork
10/3/23 7:52 p.m.

Please excuse my horrible sense of humor...

 

What happened to the foster kids you dropped off?

Just kidding!

 

That's awesome!  Exciting times and relief and all sorts of emotions, I'm sure!

matthewmcl
matthewmcl Dork
10/3/23 8:15 p.m.
759NRNG said:

how old ....how many

Almost 4 and almost 17, brothers. They have been with us for two years.

matthewmcl
matthewmcl Dork
10/3/23 8:17 p.m.
wvumtnbkr said:

What happened to the foster kids you dropped off?

Well the lease was up, you see, and the dealer had some pretty good incentive programs going...

John Welsh
John Welsh Mod Squad
10/3/23 8:34 p.m.

In reply to matthewmcl :

Every adoption has its own story.  Here's to hoping this is the happy ending to your story.

...and, they lived happily ever after.

matthewmcl
matthewmcl Dork
10/3/23 8:42 p.m.
John Welsh said:

Amazing day for all!!!  

 

This picture is from the day I walked into a building with a brand new, empty car seat and came out with it full.  

Wow, you got a new model!

Stampie
Stampie GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
10/3/23 8:50 p.m.

Congrats. That's a big age spread on them. Glad you're able to keep them together. 

Kreb (Forum Supporter)
Kreb (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand PowerDork
10/3/23 9:13 p.m.

That's great! My adopted son is 24 now. It takes some extra chutzpah to take on kids who aren't newborn. I salute and thank you.

Duke
Duke MegaDork
10/3/23 9:16 p.m.

That's outstanding, especially since you were able to keep them together. What a huge thing to do.

 

barefootcyborg5000
barefootcyborg5000 UltimaDork
10/3/23 9:32 p.m.

Awesome!

Indy - Guy
Indy - Guy UltimaDork
10/3/23 10:01 p.m.

Congratulations!

VolvoHeretic
VolvoHeretic GRM+ Memberand Dork
10/3/23 10:15 p.m.

Congratulations on your new family members, you've done a great thing. In our state, when I adopted my wife's two boys and they were getting new birth certificates, besides getting my last name, they had the choice to pick any first and middle names they wanted. I was pushing for James Tiberius and Spock, but they kept their first and middle names and chose parts of my first and middle name for their second middle names instead. 

matthewmcl
matthewmcl Dork
10/3/23 10:24 p.m.
VolvoHeretic said:

...when I adopted my wife's two boys...

Thank you for adopting your wife's kids. My dad's stepdad never did that. His mom died first and everything became stepdad's. When stepdad died, my dad and uncle found out the hard way that they weren't legally their stepdad's kids, and everything in the will discussing "children" had nothing to do with them. 

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