wawazat said:
After years of a dog reactive mixed breed dog, I'm grateful to now own a submissive push-over dog. I had regular anxiety dreams when we owned the reactive dog. I miss him but not the stress he brought to the family.
I tend to look at dogs as partners than a thing I own. I have dogs because I live in the woods with large predators and want them to bark at them and help protect my wife and I when we walk around the woods.Because of this I usually go for big protective breeds.
My first 2 dogs were Anatolian mixes before they got popular, at one time there were 3ish AKC breeds in America and one was 1 hour away. Both were very dominant dogs, Buster, was my first dog and my childhood dog. He was dominant but not necessarily reactive, he would play with other dogs just fine. He never showed outward aggression at all but was just....solid. He ran a bear off me when I was 10 too. Once I was filling a neighbor's lifted Ford truck up with a gas can and he had his Great Dane in the car. Well, the Great Dane didn't like me near the car and barked at me a little, which for a big dog is fairly alarming. Buster stood himself up at 12 years old with bad hips, put his paws on the truck, and put his nose on the other dogs and just stared at him. The dog withdrew and put itself on the other side of the truck. Very amazing to see.
My second dog was named Jack and basically everything Buster was, he was turbo charged to be more. Very dominant, but not in a mean way. Like, if I was around another dog and it was being an aggressive E36 M3head, if Jack walked out the door the dog just stopped, sat down and kinda made themselves small. It was astonishing to see, and sounds ridiculous unless you saw it. He never got in fights, the only time he did was when an aggressive Husky/malemute decided to nip at me and even then he moved the dog away from me with as limited violence as he could by standing the dog up by it's throat and dragging it away. I have so many stories about this dog and I was very lucky to have him.
So I was very used to dominant, big dogs. It took about a year but after Jack was gone we got another dog and he's the polar opposite. His name is Cosmo ( code name.....The Yeti)he's Maremma and Standard Poodle. He's massive, floofy and was beaten a lot before we got him so he's got some anxiety. But he's not dominant at all, when we got the latest puppy Kuiper ( code name..... War Potato) there was never any dominant things towards him, he was just happy to have a friend. They run around the yard at full speed, which is alarming at times because Cosmo is 31 inches at the shoulder and 110lbs and Kuiper is slightly shorter but 150lb ( he's mostly Mastiff, and German Shepherd).
It's kinda nice having a dog that other dogs see and he just kinda....is excited. He's still protective but it's a far cry from other dogs being submissive.