Ok, I'm not reading this whole thread because...I don't feel like it.
CLIFFS NOTES OF MY TALE-
Heart failure May 2020.
Morbidly Obese.
A1C indicating i'm fixing to lose a foot.
Cholesterol saying bad E36 M3 too.
Had a hard time tying my shoes.
BP was making my heart doc need BP meds.
Got laid out with a mystery as yet undiagnosed neuro issue that means I can't really do a ton of exercise, let alone walking. Put on more weight, for fun. Couldn't tie my shoes effectively. berkeleyin' shameful.
March 27th 2023- started on wegovy for weight loss. Also started a SERIOUS diet. ( 1800 was the goal, I've been a lot closer to sub 1500 the whole time) Still can't excercise. Been eating like a four year-old (seriously. Costco chicken nuggets. Every. Day. 140 cal/3oz portion. 3 portions for lunch. lil dip dip for flavor. I could be Jared from subway without the kiddie touchin')
Nov 10 2023- I am no longer considered morbidly obese.
March 1 2024- I am roughly 5lbs (give or take) from no longer being considered overweight. With my shoes on. I will most likely be done with the weight loss program my next visit on may 6. My weight no longer starts with a 2. I haven't seen numbers like that since Bill Clinton was in office.
March 7 2024- I start with a new heart doc after my old one leaves his practice. His computer doesn't believe my weight loss. He's incredulous at all my numbers and the meds i'm on. Immediately we cut one of my BP meds and my statin in half.
It can be done. High protein, low carb (by nature, that's where they hide the calories) almost no dairy (it tastes funny to me anyhow, side effect of this neuro thing methinks). Weight loss doc even said at my age (And yours, you're two years younger than me) that exercise means berkeley all towards actual weight loss. It's calories in vs calories out. 3500 calories is 1lb of fat in either direction. To burn 3500 calories, you need to walk 150k steps or....75 miles. What stuck with me more than anything was no crazy restrictions. No keto, no fad, etc etc. Idiot proof. Read labels, measure everything. It helps my food cravings are pretty low cal by nature. Spicy food isn't necessarily high fat. Salt is fat free. I don't eat a ton of sweets- and if I do I can eat a protein bar. Shrimp and tuna by my math seem to be the most effective meat based protein sources out there. Poultry is excellent as well. Beef, not so much. Pork's not too bad, depending on the cut.
Happy to answer any specifics you have.