So today I was rear ended by another car while I was driving our '06 RAV4. With 224k on it, KBB and Edmunds place the private party value somewhere between $3900 and $5200. We've owned it since new, no accidents (before this one), it's in good shape, I just spent $1k in parts (and many hours) on replacing the rear subframe and a bunch of associated parts last winter/spring, oil analysis comes back perfect, etc. so I feel like I could have gotten $5k for it private party prior to the accident. Other local comps seem to back up the $5k number, as well.
After the hit, the rear bumper cover is done, my poor mudflap is gone, and there's some damage to the passenger rear 1/4 panel. They didn't seem to hit anything terribly structural, they swerved at the last second to avoid hitting us, and their driver's side mirror hit the rear door. It doesn't look like they hit the rear bumper support, factory hitch receiver, etc. Very possible the rear tire/wheel took a glancing blow, as well. The tip of the exhaust tailpipe is mangled, but I could cut 1" off and I think it would be fine. I started to open the rear door (Toyota has a side opening door, not a hatch for some strange reason), and there was a little bit of resistance, so I stopped. (I haven't had the car in the garage to take a real look at everything yet, but it seemed to drive fine for the 2 mile trip home.)
I know a rear bumper cover used to be around $1.5k to get it replaced/painted, and figured fixing the rear 1/4 would also run at least that. Is there a rule of thumb as to what % of vehicle value it takes to total a car these days, and has Covid (and associated parts shortages) changed that?
I'm concerned because I think the hit could total it. If the damage is purely cosmetic, I'd prefer to keep the car and fix it myself as opposed to having it totaled, is there a way to make that preference known? If there's any significant body/frame damage than I'm good with having it totaled and moving on. This is my Home Depot, dump runs, run around town, park at the airport car, and I have two teenage sons who will be driving soon (one potentially in a few weeks). I like the size, AWD, it's relatively safe, and the fact that's it's been maintained well but isn't a show piece as they're learning to drive.
What are the hive's thoughts?