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etifosi
etifosi Reader
3/11/15 12:57 p.m.

Around 14 years ago my sister lost her apartment lease, had to move and was only able to keep one of her two cats. Reluctantly I agreed to allow the cat to stay with me until she was able to reclaim him. When she brought him to my house & put him down in the doorway, he walked straight over to where I was sitting, jumped up on my lap and proceeded to purr. For about 14 years straight.

He came with the name "Theo". About a month after I got him I was working a car deal from home on my day off, confirming with a customer that he was coming in to pick up his new car. Dude kicked the deal for some stupid reason & I hung up the phone, threw it down on to the couch and said " Awwww, Larry!" and Theo, who was walking by looked at me and said "Murp?". He walked into the kitchen and I said "Larry?" again, he turned/looked/murped once more.

So obviously, his natural name was Larry!

I would come home from work or really at any time I could yell "Larry!" and he would come bounding over to have his face rubbed while he purred himself to sleep.

Around the end of summer, he started becoming lethargic, lost his appetite, didn't want catgrass/nip/treats. He started becoming wobbly when he walked. Of course we took him to the vet who did a battery of tests showing all was relatively well, Vet said his heart was "enlarged" and also had a murmur, and he had a "loose hip".

Flash forward to about a week ago, Larry starts having difficulty walking, more than just wobbly, he's practically falling over. His eyes started flashing green alot, he didn't seem to be recognizing the difference between me (the passably-ok guy) and my wife (super Cat Mom).

Yesterday he took a turn for the worse, when I came home my wife was crying, Larry was silently meowing, he could hardly walk, he would fall over on his side and stay there or would spin in circles till he fell over.

So we slept on the couch with Larry stretched out like SuperCat on wife's lap, his favorite.

This morning I wake up on the couch, wife and Larry are in the kitchen, Larry is on his side & can't move. I pick him up & put him on his sheepskin on the couch, rub his face & he purrs a little, then looks at me, his eyes flash green then he seems to recognize me. He gives a feeble meow & licks me. I know it's time.....

At the Vet's office Larry seems ok, he's in his carrier curled up & alert. In the exam room we take him out of his carrier and he seems kinda ok, he's laying straight & is calm. Doc reviews the tests from the fall and examines Larry who seems pretty good, but I know he's not. His eyes are flashing green, he doesn't blink when you move your finger towards his eyes. Larry is dehydrated & has dropped from 12 pounds to 10, he was 15 lbs in July. Doc says Larry may have a brain tumor. Doc puts him down on the floor to see how he'll move and Larry spins quickly three times in a circle, falls and hits his head on a cabinet. He's crying.

Doc states the obvious, "something is dramatically wrong." Only suggestions are to run diagnostics, CT/MRI. Doc talks about brain surgery while I cradle my cat son in one arm and hug my wife with the other. I couldn't think, I let them take Larry & start an IV.

Since he's in obvious pain we don't have any choice. It was peaceful for him as it came, I held him and cried.

My only regret is letting them take Larry's temperature, the hard way. Sorry little buddy.

Rusted_Busted_Spit
Rusted_Busted_Spit GRM+ Memberand UberDork
3/11/15 1:03 p.m.

I am sorry man. Losing pets sucks, no two ways about it.

GameboyRMH
GameboyRMH GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
3/11/15 1:06 p.m.

RIP Larry So dusty in here...

Duke
Duke MegaDork
3/11/15 1:13 p.m.

Came in here thinking it was about lasik surgery. Now I can't see clearly. We've all been there multiple times, but it doesn't suck any less no matter who it is or how many times it happens.

You did the right things, at the right times. My thoughts are with all of you.

Apexcarver
Apexcarver PowerDork
3/11/15 1:23 p.m.

Deepest condolences, I had to let go of Charcoal, who was my best friend for 17 years, last spring.

I adopted this guy, Cooper, in the summer (taken in July at 3 months age)

and he has since rapidly grown rapidly to this (taken in early January, can you believe that monster is only 8 months old?!?!)

It gets better, but I still have my days where I miss the hell out of Char though, and I bet it will for you as well.

Give it time and see if your heart is open to a new companion in time. You will never find another like the one you lost, but you might find another one that will weasel their way into your heart.

gamby
gamby UltimaDork
3/11/15 1:26 p.m.

Ugh, I'm dreading the day this comes and it's coming soon for one of my two gals (she's 17, but fine for now).

Sorry for your loss. I'm sure Larry loved you as much as you loved him. Thanks for giving him a nice life.

EastCoastMojo
EastCoastMojo GRM+ Memberand Mod Squad
3/11/15 1:37 p.m.

So sorry for your loss, I am tearing up as I type this. Godspeed Larry.

1988RedT2
1988RedT2 PowerDork
3/11/15 1:42 p.m.

Thought the thread was about somebody getting glasses. Bummer. Sorry for your loss.

mike
mike New Reader
3/11/15 2:00 p.m.

Sorry for your loss. Larry is waiting for you ...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcQvYh_3Atw

gamby
gamby UltimaDork
3/11/15 2:12 p.m.
mike wrote: Sorry for your loss. Larry is waiting for you ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcQvYh_3Atw

OMG don't watch that unless you want to bawl uncontrollably (in a good way, out of having your heartstring ripped out), etifosi

nepa03focus
nepa03focus HalfDork
3/11/15 2:39 p.m.

Shoot someone is chopping onions in my house, sorry for your loss man. That is the only bad thing about having pets, is that they have such short lives compared to us. I'm gonna go hug my pug and give my cats some treats now

Curmudgeon
Curmudgeon MegaDork
3/11/15 2:43 p.m.

Man, I'm sorry to hear about Larry.

Wally
Wally GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
3/11/15 2:46 p.m.

etifosi
etifosi Reader
3/11/15 3:51 p.m.

Thank you, for the sympathy/empathy & kind words. Thank you all.

z31maniac
z31maniac UltimaDork
3/11/15 3:56 p.m.

dislike

Sorry to hear.

mad_machine
mad_machine GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
3/11/15 4:15 p.m.

sorry to hear this...

Cotton
Cotton UltraDork
3/11/15 4:21 p.m.

gah that sucks. I don't deal with pets passing well at all. Sorry for your loss.

Fobroader
Fobroader Reader
3/11/15 4:36 p.m.

Sorry about your buddy, damn dusty in this office. Non pet owners will never understand what its like to have a member of the family taken away.....RIP Larry........

Graefin10
Graefin10 SuperDork
3/11/15 4:44 p.m.

In reply to etifosi:

Sorry to hear that. Just be thankful for the time you had with him.

I took in two strays during the recent frigid weather. We've named them "Big Boy" a 17 lb. male, and "Butter Ball" a 7 lb. black long haired female. She's a trip, super short body and legs but a beautiful face and eyes. If you shaved her hair off she'd look like a football on legs. I guess she starved so long she has been overeating until the last couple of weeks. Our third cat, Peaches, was born under the back porch to a stray. My wife couldn't resist her eyes and she was right. She's a very independent critter. Almost fearless. She's our favorite. That covers the TN cats. There are about 6 more that claim us in FL.

RealMiniDriver
RealMiniDriver UltraDork
3/11/15 6:15 p.m.

Dammit, my eyes are leaking. Sorry for your loss. My fuzzy critter, Harley, is laying on my arm right now. He's sad, too.

TRoglodyte
TRoglodyte SuperDork
3/11/15 6:32 p.m.

These are never easy to read because I know how much it hurts. Sorry man

JThw8
JThw8 PowerDork
3/11/15 6:43 p.m.

Very sorry for your loss. Larry sounded like a cool cat.

wbjones
wbjones MegaDork
3/11/15 6:47 p.m.

I hate these threads … but I read every one of them… knowing that someday it'll be my turn

really sorry to hear of your loss

mapper
mapper Reader
3/11/15 7:21 p.m.
wbjones wrote: I hate these threads … but I read every one of them… knowing that someday it'll be my turn really sorry to hear of your loss

It's happened to me so many times throughout my life that you would think I would be immune by now. Nope.

OP, sorry for your loss.

clutchsmoke
clutchsmoke Dork
3/11/15 7:49 p.m.

My condolences. Hmm.. my eyes got a little watery for some reason..

My gf's cat has been having seizures for the last 2 years or so and it just keeps getting worse (upping the dosage). At 13 years old we figure she's got another year or two at most.

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